As one year ends and another begins, January is often a time of reflection - a moment to consider the past and envision a brighter path forward. For some, this New Year’s reflection may bring clarity on a deeply personal matter: the future of their marriage, civil partnership or long-term relationship.
The idea of separation or divorce can be daunting, especially after the festive season, but it’s also an opportunity to take control of your future. At Drummond Miller, we understand the weight of such decisions, and we’re here to guide you through them with care and expertise.
Why January?
January is often seen as a time for fresh starts, but it’s also one of the busiest months for divorce and separation enquiries. Why?
The festive period can bring challenges to the forefront. Whether due to financial pressures, heightened emotions, or time spent together revealing deeper issues, many couples find clarity in the New Year. With the festivities behind and routines resuming, it’s a moment to pause, reflect, and determine the best path forward - including whether a separation agreement, clean break order or formal judicial separation is the right step for you.
Children and Co-Parenting: Stability & Support
If children are involved, one of the most important aspects of separation is creating a plan that prioritises their well-being. This may include a child arrangements order or formal discussions about child maintenance payments.
Co-parenting after separation or divorce doesn’t have to be stressful. Let us help you create a child-focused plan that works for your family.
Our team of family law solicitors understands the importance of maintaining stability for children during times of change. We can provide practical advice on issues such as:
- Arrangements for living and contact schedules
- Decision-making responsibilities for education, healthcare, and activities
- Strategies for effective communication between co-parents
Your children’s needs are a priority, and so are yours. Our Family Law team offers guidance to help you create a stable and supportive future for your family.
Getting Started: A Practical Checklist
Taking the first step in a separation or divorce can feel overwhelming, but preparation can make all the difference. Being organised ensures your solicitor has the information they need to offer you the best guidance and support.
Here’s a practical checklist to help you prepare:
- Personal Records: Birth certificates, marriage certificates, civil partnership documents
- Financial Documents: Bank and credit card statements from the date of your separation, living expenses, and full financial information
- Pensions: Details and paperwork relating to all pensions (private and employment related)
- Property Records: Details of all properties owned by you or your partner/spouse, including the family home
- Shared Assets: Cohabitation agreements, or other financial agreements
- Valuable Items: Documentation for high-value possessions
- Benefit Records: Information about universal credit, child benefit, or other relevant entitlements
Gathering these details early on can provide clarity, helping to streamline the process and give you peace of mind as you move forward.
Drop-In Clinics: Free, Confidential Advice - No Appointment Needed
We understand that making the first move towards legal support can feel intimidating. To make things easier, our Family Law team runs regular drop-in clinics -offering free, confidential guidance to help you take that first step in a more informal setting.
Our clinics are open to anyone seeking early advice on family law matters, including:
- Separation and divorce
- Child arrangements and contact
- Financial issues arising from separation, including financial settlements and maintenance payments
- Cohabitation rights and responsibilities
- Guidance on separating your finances or navigating the application process
Clinic Details
Where and When:
- Dalkeith - Every second Wednesday
- Musselburgh - First Monday of each month
- Edinburgh - Every second Thursday
- Bathgate - Every second Wednesday
- Haddington - Last Tuesday of each month
- Bearsden - Every second Thursday
- Glasgow - Every second Tuesday
No appointment is necessary. Simply come along, and a member of our Family Law team will speak with you in confidence. While the sessions are not intended to provide full legal advice or representation, they offer an opportunity to understand your options and learn how we can support you, including signposting to services.
For more information, including specific dates and times visit: https://www.drummondmiller.co.uk/legal-services/family-law/drop-in-clinics/
Facing the Next Chapter
Making the decision to separate is never easy. It involves emotional and practical challenges, but it can also be the first step towards a healthier and more fulfilling future - for you and your loved ones.
As you prepare to navigate this change, consider prioritising:
- Communication: Open discussions, where possible, can help ease transitions, particularly if children are involved
- Self-Care: Your mental health matters. Don't hesitate to seek support from professionals or organisations such as Women's Aid, the National Domestic Abuse Helpline if you are affected by domestic abuse or domestic violence
- Legal Guidance: A knowledgeable family law solicitor can offer clarity on financial entitlements, the court hearing process and the role of the Family Court
We’re Here to Help
At Drummond Miller, we know the path ahead can feel uncertain, but you don’t have to face it alone. Our dedicated Family Law team offers expert guidance in all aspects of separation and divorce, including:
- Child arrangements and parental responsibilities
- Division of financial assets and property, including out of court options
- Legal advice tailored to your unique circumstances
We are members of the Law Society of Scotland and follow best practice when working with clients, including those affected by complex legal and emotional issues.
Our approach is always compassionate, professional, and client-centred, ensuring that your needs remain at the forefront as we help you take these first steps.
Your New Beginning Awaits
The New Year is a time for transformation. If you’ve been contemplating a fresh start, let this January be the moment to begin your journey towards a brighter, more positive future.
Our drop-in clinics are open and ready to welcome you. They offer a confidential and approachable way to speak with a member of our Family Law team and take that important first step forward.
We’re here, to get you there.
Take the next step
- Call us on 0131 226 5151